– Sharing A Few Thoughts For Would Be
Grooms –
– Rule No. 01 –
Never compare your
mamma’s cooking with your wife’s.
There is no faster way to
dig your own grave than that.
Please understand
that your mom’s cooking has
the backing of 20
odd years of experience…
don’t expect that
from your wife whose
hardly
into the process.
What if she were to
compare your earning capacity
with her
dad’s.. So shshshhhhh..!
– Rule No. 02 –
Never go out of your
way to please the lady with
flowers, chocolates and
gifts during your engagement period.
If ever you do , please
follow it up post-wedding too.
When you could
cover 20kms in 15 minutes
when you are engaged just
to spend some time with her,
how dare you forget her
birthday post – marriage,
even after you are given
the broadest of hints by her.
Remember
expectations always double…
ever heard of
them being halved?
– Rule No. 03 –
Do compliment her every now
and then, verbally or with gifts!
What are those lovely
Teddies and Archies gift cards for?
Don’t sit there
like the Lord Of The Rings
expecting to
be waited upon!
Of course she will do
it but everyone likes to be
appreciated
and pampered.
– Rule No. 04 –
This is very important.
Sulking or complaining about marriage
being a big
mistake is a strict NO -NO.
You got into it with your eyes
wide open, brimming with enthusiasm.
No one ever
pushed you into it.
So why
this drama now.
– Rule No. 05 –
Be Brave and
take your own decisions
and
stand up by them.
Consult your parents
for advice but realise
that you are grown up
enough to lead your life.
Respect your
partner’s views at all times!
Remember she has given up a
lot more to make a life with you!!
