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11 Lesson in Life

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage
to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be
and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.

4. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like
someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime
to forget someone.

6. Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the others shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one smiling
and everyone around you is crying

Sleep well or Get sick!

Lets sleep!
It founded that, sleeping less than 6 hour would result to stroke. Or even worst fatal. So, adult should sleep at least 7 to 8 hour, and kids should sleep around 10 hours per day. It also help brain to refresh itself clear bad toxic. These video shows more detail…

Healthy Herbs found at Indian house kitchen (with Tamil to Engli

These are herbs found at kitchen within reach. These herbs do wonders in your foods for healthy lifestyle. Make sure, you use it your cooking and daily food intake.

ஜாதிக்காய் – Nutmeg – நட்மெக்
ஜாதிபத்திரி – Mace – மெக்
இஞ்சி – Ginger – ஜின்ஜர்
சுக்கு – Dry Ginger – டிரை ஜின்ஜர்
பூண்டு – Garlic – கார்லிக்
வெங்காயம் – Onion – ஆனியன்
புளி – Tamarind – டாமரிண்ட்
மிளகாய் – Chillies – சில்லிஸ்
மிளகு – Pepper – பெப்பர்
காய்ந்த மிளகாய் / சிவப்பு மிளகாய் – Red chillies
பச்சை மிளகாய் – Green chillies
குடை மிளகாய் – Capsicum
கல் உப்பு – Salt – ஸால்ட்
தூள் உப்பு – Table salt
வெல்லம்/கருப்பட்டி – Jaggery – ஜாக்கரீ
சர்க்கரை/சீனி – Sugar – ஸுகர்
கற்கண்டு – Sugar Candy
ஏலக்காய்/ஏலம் – Cardamom – கார்டாமாம்
பாதாம் பருப்பு/வாதுமை கொட்டை – Almonds
முந்திரி பருப்பு/அண்டிப்பருப்பு – Cashew nuts
கிஸ்மிஸ் – Dry Grapes
லவங்கம்,கிராம்பு – Cloves – க்லெளவ்ஸ்
கசகசா – Poppy – பாப்பி
உளுந்து – Black Gram – பிளாக் கிராம்
கடலைப் பருப்பு – Bengal Gram – பெங்கால் கிராம்
பச்சைப்பயறு/பயித்தம் பருப்பு / பாசிப் பயறு – Moong Dhal/ Green Gram – மூனிங் தால்/கீரின் கிராம்
பாசிப்பருப்பு – Moong Dal
கடலைப்பருப்பு – Gram Dal – கிராம் தால்
உழுத்தம் பருப்பு – Urid Dhal
துவரம் பருப்பு – Red gram / Toor Dhal- ரெட்கிராம்
கம்பு – Millet – மில்லட்
கேழ்வரகு – Ragi – ராகி
கொள்ளு – Horse Gram – ஹார்ஸ் கிராம்
கோதுமை – Wheat – வீட்
கோதுமை ரவை – Cracked Wheat
சோளம் – Corn
சோளப்பொறி – Popcorn
எள்ளு – Sesame seeds / Gingelly seeds
நெல் – Paddy – பாடி
அரிசி – Rice – ரய்ஸ்
அவல் – Rice flakes
பச்சை அரிசி – Raw Rice
புளுங்கல் அரிசி – Par boiled rice
கடலை மா – Gram Flour
மக்காச்சோளம் – Maize – மெய்ஸ்
வாற்கோதுமை – Barley – பார்லி
பச்சை பட்டாணி – Green peas
சேமியா – Vermicelli
சவ்வரிசி – Sago
ரவை – Semolina
கொண்டை/கொண்டல் கடலை – Chickpeas/Channa
கடுகு – Mustard – முஸ்டார்ட்
சீரகம் – Cumin – குமின்
வெந்தயம் – Fenugreek
சோம்பு,பெருஞ்சீரகம் – Anise seeds
பெருங்காயம் – Asafoetida – அசஃபோய்டைடா
மஞ்சள் – Turmeric – டர்மரிக்
ஓமம் – Ajwain / Ajowan
தனியா – Coriander – கோரியண்டர்
கொத்தமல்லி தழை – Coriander Leaf -கோரியண்டர் லீப்
கறிவேப்பிலை – Curry Leaves
கஸ்தூரி – Musk – மஸ்க்
குங்குமப்பூ – Saffron – சஃப்ரான்
பன்னீர் – Rose Water – ரோஸ் வாட்டர்
கற்பூரம் – Camphor – கேம்ஃபர்
மருதாணி – Henna – ஹென்னா
துளசி – Tulsi
எலுமிச்சை துளசி – Basil
எண்ணெய் – Oil – ஆயில்
கடலை எண்ணெய் – Gram Oil – கிராம் ஆயில்
தேங்காய் எண்ணெய் – Cocoanut Oil – கோக்கநட் ஆயில்
நல்லெண்ணெய் – Gingili Oil/Sesame oil – ஜின்ஜிலி ஆயில்
வேப்ப எண்ணெய் – Neem Oil – நீம் ஆயில்
பாமாயில் – Palm Oil
ஆலிவ் ஆயில் – Olive Oil
பால் – Milk – மில்க்
பால்கட்டி – Cheese – ச்சீஸ்
நெய் – Ghee – கீ
வெண்ணெய் – Butter – பட்டர்
தயிர் – Curd/Yoghurt – க்கார்ட்
மோர் – Butter Milk – பட்டர் மில்க்
கீரை – Spinach – ஸ்பீனச்
அவரை – Beans – பீன்ஸ்
கர்பூரவள்ளி – Oregano
நார்த்தங்காய் – Citron – சிட்ரான்
திருநீர்பச்சை – Ocimum-basilicum
சீத்தாப்பழம் – Custard-apple
மாதுளை – Pomegranate
பரங்கிக்காய்/பூசனிக்காய் – Pumpkin
கருங்காலி மரம் – Cutch-tree
அதிமதுரம்-Liquorice
அருகம்புல் – Bermuda Grass
வல்லாரை கீரை – Pennywort (Centella asiatica)
புதினா இலை – Mint leaves
வெற்றிலை – Betel leaves
நொச்சி இலை – Vitexnegundo (Chaste Tree)
அத்தி – Fig
கீழாநெல்லி – Phyllanthus nururi
தாழை மரம் – Pandanus Odoratissimus,Fragrant Screwpine
தூதுவளை – Purple-fruited pea eggplant
துத்திக்கீரை – Abutilon indicum
பிரமத்தண்டு – Argemone mexicana Linn,(Ghamoya) Papaveraceae
கோவைக்காய் – Coccinia grandis
முடக்கத்தான் கீரை – Cardiospermum halicacabum
குப்பைமேனி – Acalypha indica; linn; Euphor biaceae
நத்தைச்சூரி – Rubiaceae,Spermacoce hispida; Linn;
சோற்றுக்கற்றாழை – Aloe Vera
நாவல் பழம் – Naval fruit (Syzygium jambolana)
பேய் மிரட்டி செடி – Anisomeles malabarica, R.br, Lamiaceae
தேள்கொடுக்கு செடி – Heliotropium
நிலக்குமிழஞ் செடி – Gmelina Asiatica
நெல்லிக்காய் – Amla,Indian Gooseberries
சதகுப்பை (சோயிக்கீரை,மதுரிகை) – Peucedanum grande; Umbelliferae
சிறு குறிஞ்சான் – Gymnema Sylvestre; R.Br.Anclepiadaceqe
அரிவாள்மனை பூண்டு – Sida caprinifolia
அகத்திக்கீரை – Sesbania grandiflora
செண்பகப் பூ – Sonchafa (champa)
சுண்டைக்காய் – Solanum torvum(Turkey Berry)
செம்பருத்தி – Hibiscus(Shoe Flower)
கரும்பு – Sugar cane
நீர்முள்ளி – Long leaved Barleria (Hygrophila auriculata)
அன்னாசிப் பூ – Star Anise
பூவரசு – Portia tree (Thespesia populnea)
ஊசிப்பாலை – Oxystelma Secamone
அமுக்கரா சூரணம்,அசுவகந்தி – Indian winter cherry
கத்தரிக்காய் – Egg plant / Aubergine / Brinjal
கொய்யாப் பழம் – Guava
மரவள்ளிக் கிழங்கு – Tapioca
சர்க்கரை வள்ளி கிழங்கு/சீனி கிழங்கு – Sweet Potato
சேனைக்கிழங்கு/கருணைக்கிழங்கு – Yam
விளாம் பழம் – Wood apple
முள்ளங்கி – Radish / parsnip
புடலங்காய் – Snake gourd
பாகற்காய் – Bitter gourd
வெண்டைக்காய் – Ladies Finger/ Okra
வேர்கடலை/நிலக்கடலை – Peanut
வாழைக்காய் – Ash Plantain
வாழைப்பழம் – Banana
ஊறுகாய் – Pickle
உருளைக் கிழங்கு – Potato
தேங்காய் – Coconut
இளந்தேங்காய் – Tender Coconut
இளநீர் – Tender Coconut water
பதநீர்/பயினி – Neera /Palmyra juice
கள்ளு – Palm wine/Palm Toddy
சுண்ணாம்பு – Lime
ஆப்பச் சோடா – Baking Soda
தீப்பெட்டி – Match Box
ஊதுபத்தி/ஊதுவர்த்தி – Incence Stick

Stress Management

அப்துல் கலாம் விஞ்ஞானச் சிந்தனை – Great Scientist of India Abdul Kalam

அணு குண்டை உருவாக்கும் திட்டத்தை அவர் வெற்றிகரமாக முடித்து தமிழகம் வந்தபோது சொன்ன உதாரணம் அவரை திரும்பிப் பார்க்க வைத்தது..

” வெள்ளத் தனைய மலர்நீட்டம் மாந்தர்தம் உள்ளத் தனையது உயர்வு.. ”

என்ற வள்ளுவனின் குறளைச் சொல்லி இந்தக் குறளுக்குள் இருக்கும் உயர்ந்த விஞ்ஞானச் சிந்தனைக்கு அப்பால் உலகில் என்ன இருக்கப்போகிறது என்று கேட்டார்.

” தண்ணீரின் அளவுக்குத் தகுந்தபடி தாமரை மலர்களின் தாள்கள் நீளும். அதைப்போல மனிதர்களுடைய ஊக்கத்தின் அளவுக்குத் தக்கபடி அவர்களுடைய சிறப்புகள் உயரும்.”

” நீர் உயர உயர குளத்தில் இருக்கும் மலரின் தண்டும் அதற்கு அமைவாக உயர்வடையும்.. நீங்கள் கனவு காணலாம், கற்பனைகளை வளர்க்கலாம் அதற்கமைவாக உங்கள் உடல் தயாராகும்.. இதைவிட ஒரு உதாரணம் வேறெந்த மொழியிலும் கிடையாது..” என்றார்…
தமிழை மதிக்காத.. தமிழர்களை ஒரு கணம் தமிழைப் பார்க்க வைத்தார்.

Nasi Kandar at Penang, Malaysia (Ranking of Best)

List of Best NASI KANDAQ PALING At PENANG:
Morning

1. Jelutong (Nasi kandaq Ali Amir) – Jln Jelutong off Jln Tan Sri Teh Ewe Lim)
2. Kampung Melayu (Flat kg melayu – am & Desa Mawar – pm)
3. Sulaiman (6.00am – Chinese shop infront of Jln Utama)
4. Rahman (4.00pagi – Jln Dato Keramat facing Ivory Times Square)
5. Teluk Kumbar (chinese restaurant pekan lama – sold by mami- kakak) known as nasi kandar daud
6. Haniffa (Wife of late Malik – Jln Bayan Lepas – nearby Jln Garuda junction)

Afternoon
1. Hotel Merlin (Union St off Penang St)
2. Tajuddin Hussain (10am – Queen St)
3. kedai rendah bertentangan Sikh Gudwara (Jln Gudwara)
4. Rahim @ Haniffa (Rahim, Brother of late Malik – Jln Byn Lepas – nearby Jln Garuda junction)
5. Taat (Pekan Teluk Kumbar)

Night
1. Shariff (Glugor depan 7-Eleven)
2. Teluk Kumbar (kedai cina pekan lama – mami yg jual – adik)
3. Nasi Beratur (10.00 mlm – Liaqat Ali – next to Masjid Kapitan Keling)
4. Rahman Berkat (kedai cina Jln Jelutong off Jalan Market Jelutong
5. Tajuddin Hussain (6.30pm – Queen St)
6. Rahman Nasi Dalca (Queen St – ini nasi dalca = mcm nasi kenduri)
7. Nasi Kandar Imigresen (5.30pm – Lorong Pasar -stall sebelah kedai cina)

Restoran Deen 24jam (Jln Jelutong sebelah &-Eleven – well known towards Penangites and delicious too)
nasik kandar kpg melayu rasanya lain sikit dr nasi kandar kedai lain..especially daging nye…
Speciality lauk Tiap2 Nasi Kandar

 

Special Menu at each place:
Morning
1. Jelutong (Nasi kandaq Ali Amir) – Jln Jelutong off Jln Tan Sri Teh Ewe Lim)
– ayam ros, daging, sotong & udang (udang besar dijual pd harga yg agak murah)
2. Kampung Melayu (Flat kg melayu – pagi & Desa Mawar – petang)
– daging tempatan, sotong, ayam kicap madu.
3. Sulaiman (6.00am – kedai cina depan bertentangan Jln Utama)
– daging, gulai ikan.
4. Rahman (4.00pagi – Jln Dato Keramat bertentangan Ivory Times Square)
– daging, ayam goreng bawang (kali terakhir makan ayamnya dah tak sedap)
5. Teluk Kumbar (kedai cina pekan lama – mami yg jual – kakak)
– daging cincang
6. Haniffa (isteri arwah Malik – Jln Byn Lepas – dekat dgn simpang Jln Garuda)
– daging cincang, ayam goreng bawang
Speciality lauk Tiap2 Nasi Kandar

Afternoon
1. Hotel Merlin (Union St off Penang St)
– nasi tomato, sambal kelapa, ayam ros, sotong.
2. Tajuddin Hussain (10am – Queen St)
– daging kambing, nasi tomato / beryani, ayam ros (best in town), sambal kelapa, cili kering goreng, gulai anak ikan,
3. kedai rendah bertentangan Sikh Gudwara (Jln Gudwara)
– tak ada yg istimewa tapi masakannya panas2.
4. Rahim @ Haniffa (Rahim, abg arwah Malik – Jln Byn Lepas – dekat dgn simpang Jln Garuda)
– ayam goreng bawang
5. Taat (Pekan Teluk Kumbar)
– gulai ikan

Night
1. Shariff (Glugor depan 7-Eleven)
– daging, gulai ikan
2. Teluk Kumbar (kedai cina pekan lama – mami yg jual – adik)
– gulai ikan talang kering, sotong
3. Nasi Beratur (10.00 mlm – Liaqat Ali – sebelah Masjid Kapitan Kling)
– daging, telur dadar (rasa mcm murtabak), sambal kelapa
4. Rahman Berkat (kedai cina Jln Jelutong off Jalan Market Jelutong
– ayam goreng bawang, daging
5. Tajuddin Hussain (6.30pm – Queen St)
– daging kambing, nasi tomato / beryani, ayam ros (best in town), sambal kelapa, cili kering goreng, gulai anak ikan,
6. Rahman Nasi Dalca (Queen St – ini nasi dalca = mcm nasi kenduri)
– gulai ayam, daging kambing.
7. Nasi Kandar Imigresen (5.30pm – Lorong Pasar -stall sebelah kedai cina)
– nasi dimakan bersama bawang goreng

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Valentine Special :: A dedication to my love…

This video is all about a beloved pairs dedication toward their true and sincere love. Its begins by the male seed for a plant. Same as seed for the true love. A dedication to have better care for those plants. The idea of a visit to plants during cold snow seasons is just nice. Its show, his feeling toward those plants. How those plants become a beautiful love proposal is the climax. The way, voice narrated since begins to the end of video, make us realize and feel for our own beloved pair.

Maybe, base on video cover it mays give you an idea of its something to do with dirty romance. Well, yes its very romantic video. Anyhow, if you expect anything dirty scene, you are wrong. This video do have some minor expose of female character. But, the author did his part well and made us travel with the flow of the video. On minus point,  some of us may not agree the final message of “marry me” when they stay and sleep together. Its maybe this western culture may not fit to Asian people.

On the other hand, the way describe about the female character made me recall my beloved for a moments. Those description fit for her too. So overall, its very nice video. A must watch by you. A sweet and creative proposal to a very beloved girl friend by her boy friend. Such a wonderful feeling when watch it. Enjoy watching…

– This video posted as my dedication to my beloved with all my heart and sincerely, I Love You my dearest.

George Town Festival 2013

Victoria Street Project happening alongside of Georgetown. Happening events such as Bridge & Kaki Lima, STREET! Entertainment, Intriguing Instruments, An Evening of Lights, Taste of Tropfest and more…

Schedule for this Saturday’s Heritage Celebration

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Schedule for this Sunday’s Heritage Celebration

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Location Map

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LATEST CANCER INFORMATION

AFTER YEARS OF TELLING PEOPLE CHEMOTHERAPY IS THE ONLY WAY TO TRY AND ELIMINATE CANCER, JOHNS HOPKINS IS FINALLY STARTING TO TELL YOU THERE IS AN ALTERNATIVE WAY …
1. Every person has cancer cells in the body. These cancer cells do not show up in the standard tests until they have multiplied to a few billion. When doctors tell cancer patients that there are no more cancer cells in their bodies after treatment, it just means the tests are unable to detect the cancer cells because they have not reached the detectable size.
2. Cancer cells occur between 6 to more than 10 times in a person’s lifetime.
3. When the person’s immune system is strong the cancer cells will be destroyed and prevented from multiplying and forming tumors.
4. When a person has cancer it indicates the person has multiple nutritional deficiencies. These could be due to genetic, environmental, food and lifestyle factors.
5. To overcome the multiple nutritional deficiencies, changing diet and including supplements will strengthen the immune system.
6. Chemotherapy involves poisoning the rapidly-growing cancer cells and also destroys rapidly-growing healthy cells in the bone marrow, gastro-intestinal tract etc, and can cause organ damage, like liver, kidneys, heart, lungs etc.
7. Radiation while destroying cancer cells also burns, scars and damages healthy cells, tissues and organs.
8. Initial treatment with chemotherapy and radiation will often reduce tumor size. However prolonged use of chemotherapy and radiation do not result in more tumor destruction.
9. When the body has too much toxic burden from chemotherapy and radiation the immune system is either compromised or destroyed, hence the person can succumb to various kinds of infections and complications.
10. Chemotherapy and radiation can cause cancer cells to mutate and become resistant and difficult to destroy. Surgery can also cause cancer cells to spread to other sites.
11. An effective way to battle cancer is to STARVE the cancer cells by not feeding it with foods it needs to multiple.
What cancer cells feed on:
a. Sugar is a cancer-feeder. By cutting off sugar it cuts off one important food supply to the cancer cells. Note: Sugar substitutes like NutraSweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc are made with Aspartame and it is harmful. A better natural substitute would be Manuka honey or molasses but only in very small amounts. Table salt has a chemical added to make it white in colour. Better alternative is Bragg’s aminos or sea salt.
b. Milk causes the body to produce mucus, especially in the gastro-intestinal tract. Cancer feeds on mucus. By cutting off milk and substituting with unsweetened soy milk, cancer cells will starved.
c. Cancer cells thrive in an acid environment. A meat-based diet is acidic and it is best to eat fish, and a little chicken rather than beef or pork. Meat also contains livestock antibiotics, growth hormones and parasites, which are all harmful, especially to people with cancer.
d. A diet made of 80% fresh vegetables and juice, whole grains, seeds, nuts and a little fruits help put the body into an alkaline environment. About 20% can be from cooked food including beans. Fresh vegetable juices provide live enzymes that are easily absorbed and reach down to cellular levels within 15 minutes t o nourish and enhance growth of healthy cells.
To obtain live enzymes for building healthy cells try and drink fresh vegetable juice (most vegetables including bean sprouts) and eat some raw vegetables 2 or 3 times a day. Enzymes are destroyed at temperatures of 104 degrees F (40 degrees C).
e. Avoid coffee, tea, and chocolate, which have high caffeine. Green tea is a better alternative and has cancer-fighting properties. Water–best to drink purified water, or filtered, to avoid known toxins and heavy metals in tap water. Distilled water is acidic, avoid it.
12. Meat protein is difficult to digest and requires a lot of digestive enzymes. Undigested meat remaining in the intestines will become putrified and leads to more toxic buildup.
13. Cancer cell walls have a tough protein covering. By refraining from or eating less meat it frees more enzymes to attack the protein walls of cancer cells and allows the body’s killer cells to destroy the cancer cells.
14. Some supplements build up the immune system (IP6, Flor-ssence, Essiac, anti-oxidants, vitamins, minerals, EFAs etc.) to enable the body’s own killer cells to destroy cancer cells. Other supplements like vitamin E are known to cause apoptosis, or programmed cell death, the body’s normal method of disposing of damaged, unwanted, or unneeded cells.
15. Cancer is a disease of the mind, body, and spirit. A proactive and positive spirit will help the cancer warrior be a survivor.
Anger, unforgiving and bitterness put the body into a stressful and acidic environment. Learn to have a loving and forgiving spirit. Learn to relax and enjoy life.
16. Cancer cells cannot thrive in an oxygenated environment. Exercising daily, and deep breathing help to get more oxygen down to the cellular level. Oxygen therapy is another means employed to destroy cancer cells.

from Johns Hopkins

Free Tuition – open for registration

Sairam everyone,

We will be starting a free tuition class for children from families who can’t effort to attend paid tuition. Target to start by May 2013 and is conducted by a professional tutor as a service to our community with help of some volunteers. Class will be conducted at Sai Jyothi, Alma, No. 2, Lorong Sejahtera 24B, Taman Sejahtera, Alma, Bukit Mertajam every Saturdays. Time to be confirmed once the children register with us. Please contact us at 012 – 5187327 or can email me their details.

Free Tuition - open for registration

Please disseminate this info to those poor families who can’t afford to send their children for paid tuition around Alma, Bukit Mertajam area. Thank you so much. Attached flyer.

Jai Sairam
team@SaiJyothi,Alma

Do Couples Change After Marriage?

I recommend, all current generation loving couples must watch it.

Natural Therapy For Headaches

In about 5 mins, your headache will go…….
The nose has a left and a right side.
We use both to inhale and exhale.
Actually they are different.
You’ll be able to feel the difference.
The right side represents the sun.
The left side represents the moon.
During a headache, try to close your right nose
and use your left nose to breathe.
In about 5 mins, your headache will go.
If you feel tired, just reverse, close your left nose
and breathe through your right nose.
After a while, you will feel your mind is refreshed.
Right side belongs to ‘hot’, so it gets heated up easily.
Left side belongs to ‘cold’.
Most females breathe with their left noses,
so they get "cooled off" faster.
Most of the guys breathe with their right noses,
they get worked up.
Do you notice, the moment you awake, which side breathes better?
Left or right ?
If left is better, you will feel tired.
So, close your left nose and use your right nose for breathing..
You will feel refreshed quickly.
Do you suffer from continual headaches?
Try out this breathing therapy.
Close your right nose and breathe through your left nose.
Your headaches will be gone.
Continued the exercise for one month.
Why not give it a try…..a natural therapy without medication.

AM I WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

A very good read.
AM I WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind replied the author.
Here’s the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..

Best Indian Wedding Proposal–very creative

This is his first wedding proposal video. They only had 2days to make this event. The couples are now married. Very Lovely. Girls dream for this kind of proposal.

True Love Safe you always

She came home from school, wanting to end her life. Her boyfriend broke up with her, she failed almost every subject, and she fought with the whole group. She questioned the point of life…was there one? The only thing she had on her mind while taking a knife out of the kitchen was her best friend. If seemed unfair to her, leaving him alone. He needed her, and most important…she needed him. She was in love…she only had this boyfriend so he would never find out she loved him. That’s what scared her even more. So she decided to write him a letter before she would commit suicide. She told him how much she loved him, and she told him to go on. She was unlucky and had to end it all. But he shouldn’t stop believing in the power of love. As they say, hope is what goes last. And since her hope is gone, there’s no point for her to live.
She put the letter in an envelope and send it off. For she didn’t know it’d reach him, in two hours and a half. He came back from soccer practice, and looked on his desk. There was an envelope on it, he didn’t even turned it over, he ran fast to the phone. He dailed her number, hoping she was home. She had the knife over her wrist. She was about to cut it open, but then the phone rang. She didn’t think ’bout picking up, but the phone rang and she thought it might be her love…her best friend…her everything. She went to the phone and picked up. She melted away by listening to his voice:
I love you, I’m really sorry this comes so late. I was too scared telling you and risking our bond. You are my everything, I don’t want to lose you. I got your letter, I haven’t opened it yet. But I felt like I have to call you, and tell you I love you. I always have, and I always will.
She didn’t tell him he rescued her life that night…

nikon, august, 2010, 190

Why Do Desires Go Unfulfilled After Working Hard? Sadhguru

We must work smart. work right. In correct method. Then only can success. And the most important, enjoy our work. Its not work hard.
A funny but meaningful video clip of Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev.

How to stop angry?

very useful to control your angry. Its all about self control and mind setting. But Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev.

 

Truth behind Internet dating

watch this animation to discover the truth and dangers of internet dating . Animation by David Hoffmann

Figure ah correct panradhu eppadi

How to tackle a girl? i mean, Figure ah correct panradhu eppadi??? What is the best way to attract a girl to fall in love with us.

Human Brain Analysis – Man vs. Woman

1. MULTI-TASKING
Women – Multiple process
Womens brains designed to concentrate multiple task at a time.
Women can Watch a TV and Talk over phone and cook.
Men – Single Process
Mens brains designed to concentrate only one work at a time. Men can not watch TV and talk over the phone at the same time. they stop the TV while Talking. They can either watch TV or talk over the phone or cook.
2. LANGUAGE
Women can easily learn many languages. But can not find solutions to problems. Men can not easily learn languages, they can easily solve problems. That’s why in average a 3 years old girl has three times higher vocabulary than a 3 yeard old boy.
3. ANALYTICAL SKILLS
Mens brains has a lot of space for handling the analytical process. They can analyze and find the solution for a process and design a map of a building easily. But If a complex map is viewed by women, they can not understand it. Women can not understand the details of a map easily, For them it is just a dump of lines on a paper.
4. CAR DRIVING.
While driving a car, mans analytical spaces are used in his brain. He can drive a car fastly. If he sees an object at long distance, immediately his brain classifies the object (bus or van or car) direction and speed of the object and he drives accordingly. Where woman take a long time to recognize the object direction/ speed. Mans single process mind stops the audio in the car (if any), then concentrates only on driving.
5. LYING
When men lie to women face to face, they get caught easily. Womans super natural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. Mens brain does not have this. Women easily lie to men face to face.
So guys, do not lie face to face.
6. PROBLEMS SOLVING
If a man have a lot of problems, his brain clearly classifies the problems and puts them in individual rooms in the brain and then finds the solution one by one. You can see many guys looking at the sky for a long time. If a woman has a lot of problems, her brain can not classify the problems. she wants some one to hear that. After telling everything to a person she goes happily to bed. She does not worry about the problems being solved or not.
7. WHAT THEY WANT
Men want status, success, solutions, big process, etc… But Women want relationship, friends, family, etc…
8. UNHAPPINESS
If women are unhappy with their relations, they can not concentrate on their work. If men are unhappy with their work, they can not concentrate on the relations.
9. SPEECH
Women use indirect language in speech. But Men use direct language.
10. HANDLING EMOTION
Women talk a lot without thinking. Men act a lot without thinking.