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50 Things That Girls Should Know About Guys

50 Things That Girls Should Know About Guys

  1. Guys aren’t psychic, mind telling them what you mean?
  2. Guys don’t like to be used as pawns in trying to make your friends jealous.
  3. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. Better watch out girls.
  4. The biggest turn off for guys is to see girls smoking.
  5. The biggest turn on for guys are the girls who workout.
  6. Girls who don’t want to listen to the truth shouldn’t be asking any questions.
  7. Ending a heated conversation with “Fine” or “Whatever” isn’t considered acceptable.
  8. If you want sex, just ask.
  9. Don’t expect guys to say as many sweet things as they do in the movies. It takes 10 couples to come up with one sweet thing that they put up in the movies.
  10. Only models are able to carry off most of the stuff you see in fashion magazines.
  11. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
  12. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
  13. Guys need to be reassured often that they’re still loved.
  14. Guys don’t care about how gorgeous you are, it’s goodbye, adios, and sayonara if you’re being a bitch.
  15. All guys are kinky and willing to try anything that you may enjoy, just let them know.
  16. Guys are more emotional than you think. If they loved you at one point, it’ll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.
  17. A guy would do just about anything to get you to notice him.
  18. Guys do not look into minute detailing. So, if you gave up a quarter of an inch from your 20 inches long hair, don’t expect your guy to know that instantly.
  19. Guys like porn!
  20. Anything said six months ago is inadmissible in an argument. All comments become null and void after seven days.
  21. “The game is on” will be considered an acceptable excuse to postpone any serious conversations.
  22. Cooking makes a girl all the more attractive.
  23. You can’t get mad if your guy refuses to hook up your “ugly friend” with one of his good-looking friends.
  24. Nothing you will ever do will entitle you to operate the remote control, unless operating means handing it to him.
  25. The only thing left to be said after sex is “goodnight.”
  26. Video games have helped men develop awesome finger skills that only encourage them to play more often.
  27. Critiquing a man’s driving is outright unacceptable.
  28. Guys’ night outs are sacred events. If you ask any question about it, you’ll be castigated.
  29. Believe it or not, 99.5% of the time men honestly don’t mean to hurt you.
  30. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
  31. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest.
  32. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
  33. Don’t hold it against your guy if he starts to cry after a good sports movie, and was laughing outrageously last night when the two of you were watching an emotional drama saga.
  34. Leaving a message like “You know what?! Mmm… Never mind…” would make a guy hanging on to that thought all day long and reach a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. Don’t ever do that!
  35. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
  36. Guys love you more than you love them.
  37. No matter how much guys talk about hotness or sex appeal, personality is key.
  38. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
  39. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn’t happen that often, so when it does, you know something’s up.
  40. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
  41. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
  42. You like when your guy calls and asks you out for dinner and pays for you, right? Well yeah, guys like it once in a while too.
  43. It’s natural for a guy’s eyes to wander.
  44. It’s not that guys don’t want to make their girlfriends happy; it’s just that sometimes, they don’t know how.
  45. A guy would give his right arm to be able to read a girl’s mind for a day.
  46. Not all guys are jerks. Just because one is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents all of them.
  47. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he isn’t doing it all for sex. It means he likes you more than you can imagine.
  48. Even if you dumped a guy months ago and he loved you, he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be to have you back in his life.
  49. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
  50. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over novels and make-ups.

45 THINGS A GIRL WANT, BUT WON’T ASK FOR

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
…4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
Are you remembering this?
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
KEEP READING ..
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.
Are you thinking of someone?
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car – it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything – only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her – if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT – so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!
WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.
ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.
31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.
REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.
You’ll never know when she needs just a little more love .. ?

BANANAS – A very interesting FACTS

Never, put your banana in the refrigerator!!!…
This is interesting. After reading this, you’ll never look at a banana in the same way again.
Bananas contain three natural sugars – sucrose, fructose and glucose combined with fiber. A banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial boost of energy.
Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit with the world’s leading athletes.
But energy isn’t the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it a must to add to our daily diet.
DEPRESSION:
According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND amongst people suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating a banana. This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and generally make you feel happier.
PMS:
Forget the pills – eat a banana. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.
ANEMIA:
High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of hemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.
BLOOD PRESSURE:
This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet low in salt, making it perfect to beat blood pressure So much so, the US Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the banana industry to make official claims for the fruit’s ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke.
BRAIN POWER:
200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school ( England ) were helped through their exams this year by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert.
CONSTIPATION:
High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help restore normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to laxatives.
HANGOVERS:
One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a banana milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and, with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.
HEARTBURN:
Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.
MORNING SICKNESS:
Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.
MOSQUITO BITES:
Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.
NERVES:
Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system..
Overweight and at work? Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and chips. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs. The report concluded that, to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two hours to keep levels steady.
ULCERS:
The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.
TEMPERATURE CONTROL:
Many other cultures see bananas as a ‘cooling’ fruit that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In Thailand , for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure their baby is born with a cool temperature.
So, a banana really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to an apple, it has FOUR TIMES the protein, TWICE the carbohydrate, THREE TIMES the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins and minerals.. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods around So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say, ‘A BANANA a day keeps the doctor away!’

 

What a wife looking from her husband…

கணவனிடம் மனைவி எதிர்பார்ப்பது என்ன? 1. அன்பாக , பிரியமாக இருக்க வேண்டும். 2. மனது புண்படும்படி பேசக் கூடாது. 3. கோபப்படக்கூடாது. 4. சாப்பாட்டில் குறை சொல்லக் கூடாது 5. பலர் முன் திட்டக்கூடாது. 6. எந்த இடத்திலும் மனைவியை விட்டுக் கொடுக்க கூடாது. 7. முக்கிய விழாக்களுக்கு சேர்ந்து போக வேண்டும். 8. மனைவியிடம் கலந்து ஆலோசிக்க வேண்டும். 9. சொல்வதைப் பொறுமையாகக் கேட்க வேண்டும் 10. மனைவியின் கருத்தை ஆதரிக்க வேண்டும், மதிக்க வேண்டும். 11. வித்தியாசமாக ஏதாவது செய்தால் ரசிக்க வெண்டும். பாராட்ட வேண்டும். 12. பணம் மட்டும் குறிக்கோள் அல்ல. குழந்தை, குடும்பம் இவற்றிற்கும் உரிய முக்கியத்துவம் தந்து நடந்து கொள்ள வேண்டும். 13. வாரம் ஒரு முறையாவது. மனம் விட்டுப் பேச வேண்டும். 14. மாதம் ஒரு முறையாவது வெளியில் அழைத்துச் செல்ல வேண்டும். 15. ஆண்டுக்கு ஒரு முறையாவது சுற்றுலா செல்ல வேண்டும். 16. பிள்ளைகளின் படிப்பைப் பற்றி அக்கறையுடன் கேட்க வேண்டும். 17. ஒளிவு மறைவு கூடாது. 18. மனைவியை நம்ப வேண்டும். 19. முக்கியமானவற்றை மனைவியிடம் கூற வேண்டும். 20. மனைவியிடம் அடுத்த பெண்ணைப் பாராட்டக் கூடாது. 21. அடுத்தவர் மனைவி அழகாக இருக்கிறாள் என்று எண்ணாமல் தனக்குக் கிடைத்ததை வைத்து சந்தோசப்பட வேண்டும். 22. தனக்கு இருக்கும் கஷ்டம் தன் மனைவிக்கும் இருக்கும் என்று எண்ண வேண்டும். 23. உடல் நலமில்லாத போது உடனிருந்து கவனிக்க வேண்டும். 24. சின்ன, சின்னத் தேவைகளை நிறைவு செய்ய வேண்டும். 25. சிறு சிறு உதவிகள் செய்ய வேண்டும். 26. குழந்தைகள் அசிங்கம் செய்து விட்டால் ‘இது உன் குழந்தை ‘ என்று ஒதுங்கக் கூடாது. 27. அம்மாவிடம் காட்டும் பாசத்தை, மனைவியிடமும் காட்ட வேண்டும். ஏனென்றால் மனம் சலிக்காமல் அம்மாவை விட, அக்கா, தங்கையை விட அதிகமாக கவனிக்க கூடியவள் மனைவி. 28. நேரத்திற்குச் சாப்பிட வேண்டும். 29. சாப்பாடு வேண்டுமென்றால் முன் கூட்டியே சொல்ல வேண்டும். 30. எங்கு சென்றாலும் மனைவியிடம் சொல்லி விட்டுச் சொல்ல வேண்டும். 31. சொன்ன நேரத்திற்கு வர வேண்டும். 32. எப்போதும் வீட்டு நினைப்பு வேண்டும். 33. மனைவியின் பிறந்த நாள் தெரிய வேண்டும். 34. மனைவிக்குப் பிடித்தவற்றைத் தெரிந்து வைத்திருக்க வேண்டும். 35. பொய், சூது, மது, மாது போன்ற தீய பழக்கங்கள் கூடாது. 36. மனைவி வீட்டாரைக் குறை சொல்லக் கூடாது. 37. கைச் செலவுக்கு பணம் தர வேண்டும்

A husband needs from her wife – மனைவியிடம் கணவன் எதிர்பார்ப்பது என்ன?

மனைவியிடம் கணவன் எதிர்பார்ப்பது என்ன?

1. பள்ளி அலுவலக நேரம் தெரிந்து அதற்குமுன் தயாரித்தல்.
2. காலையில் முன் எழுந்திருத்தல்.
3. எப்போதும் சிரித்த முகம்.
4. நேரம் பாராது உபசரித்தல்.
5. மாமியாரை தாயாக மதிக்க வேண்டும்.
6. கணவன் வீட்டாரிடையே அனுசரித்துப் போக வேண்டும்.
7. எதற்கெடுத்தாலும் ஆண்களைக் குறை சொல்லக் கூடாது.
8. அதிகாரம் பணணக் கூடாது.
9. குடும்ப ஒற்றுமைக்கு உழைக்க வேண்டும். அண்ணன், தம்பி பிரிப்பு கூடாது.
10. கணவன் குறைகளை வெளியே சொல்லக்கூடாது. அன்பால் திருத்த வேண்டும்.
11. கணவனை சந்தேகப்படக் கூடாது.
12. குடும்பச் சிக்கல்களை வெளியே சொல்லக் கூடாது.
13. பக்கத்து வீடுகளில் அரட்டை அடிப்பதைக் குறைக்க வேண்டும்.
14. வீட்டுக்கு வந்தவுடன், சாப்பிடும் போது சிக்கல்கள் குறித்துப் பேசக் கூடாது.
15. கணவர் வழி உறவினர்களையும் நன்கு உபசரிக்க வேண்டும்.
16. இருப்பதில் திருப்தி அடைய வேண்டும்.
17. அளவுக்கு மீறிய ஆசை கூடாது.
18. குழந்தை படிப்பில் கவனம் செலுத்த வேண்டும்.
19. கொடுக்கும் பணத்தில் சீராகக் குடும்பம் நடத்த வேண்டும்.
20. கணவரிடம் சொல்லாமல் கணவரின் சட்டைப் பையிலிருக்கும் பணத்தை எடுத்துக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது.
21. தேவைகளை முன் கூட்டியே சொல்ல வேண்டும்.
22. எதிர்காலத் திட்டங்களைச் சிந்திக்கும் போது ஒத்துழைக்க வேண்டும்.
23. தினமும் நடந்ததை இரவில் சொல்ல வேண்டும்.
24. தாய் வீட்டில் கணவரை குற்றம் சொன்னால் மறுத்துப் பேச வேண்டும்.
25. அடக்கம், பணிவு தேவை. கணவர் விருப்பத்துக்கு ஏற்றாற் போல் ஆடை, அலங்காரம் செய்ய வேண்டும்.
26. குழந்தையைக் கண்டிக்கும் போது எதிர்வாதம் கூடாது.
27. சுவையாகச் சமைத்து, அன்புடன் பரிமாற வேண்டும்.
28. கணவர் வீட்டுக்கு வரும் போது நல்ல தோற்றம் இருக்கும்படி வீட்டை அழகாக வைத்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்.
29. பொது அறிவை வளர்த்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்.
30. உரையாடலில் தெளிவாகப் பேசுவதுடன், பொருத்தமான முறையில் எடுத்துரைக்கும் விதமும் தெரிய வேண்டும்.
31. தேவையற்றதை வாங்கிப் பண முடக்கம் செய்யக் கூடாது.
32. உடம்பை சிலிம் ஆக வைத்துக் கொள்ள வேண்டும்.

Easy MBA notes–how easy to learn business marketing (for guys)

A Professor explained Marketing to MBA students
1. You see gorgeous girl in party,
you go to her & say I am rich marry me
That’s Direct Marketing.
2. You attend party & your friend goes to a girl & pointing at you
tells her. He’ is very rich, marry him – That’s Advertising.
3. Girl walks to you & says u are rich, can u marry me?
"That’s Brand Recognition"
4. You say I m very rich marry me & she slaps u
"That’s Customer Feedback"
5. You say I m very rich marry me & she introduces you to her husband
"That’s Demand & Supply Gap"
6. Before you say I m rich, marry me, your wife arrives
That’s Restriction from Entering New Market.

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PERFECT TWO – guide for perfect ideal couple

A must see video.  easy love guides and steps should someone follow. This help a very romantic, peaceful, lovely life with your pair.

 

So, nice. A short film on man-woman differences by Kamini A. Rajah

All were missing the target! missing you honey

Husband throwing knives on wifes picture.
All were missing the target!
Suddenly he received call from her
"Hi,wat ru doin?"
His honest reply,"MISSING U"

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Cool Msg by a woman-
Dear Mother-in-law,
"Don’t Teach me how 2 handle my children,
I’m living with one of yours
&
he needs a lot of improvement" 😉

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”An Intelligent Wife Is One
Who Makes Sure She Spends
So Much
That
Her Husband
Can’t Afford Another
Women" 😛

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Husband was seriously ill.
Doc to wife :-
Give him healthy breakfast, be pleasant & in gud mood,
don’t discuss ur problems,
no tv serial, dont demand new clothes & gold jewels,
Do this for 1 yr & he will be ok.
On the way home..
Husband :- wat did the doc say ?
Wife :- .No chance for u to survive

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An Airline Introduced
A Special Package For Business Men.
Buy Ur Ticket Get Ur Wife’s Ticket Free
After Great Success,
The Company Sent Letters To All The Wives
Asking How Was The Trip.
All Of Them Gave A Same Reply…
"Which Trip ?"

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An Angry Wife To
Her Husband 0n Phone:
"Where d Hell Are You … ?"
Husband:
Darling You Remember That
Jewelery Shop Where You Saw
The Diamond Necklace n Totally
Fell In Love With It n I Didn’t
Have Money That Time n I said
"Baby It’ll Be Yours 1 Day … " O:)
Wife, With A Smile & Blushing:
Yeah I Remember That My Love !
Husband:
I m In The Pub Just Next To That Shop

WIFE = Without Information, Fighting Everytime OR With Idiot For Ever?

Having "WIFE" Is A
Part Of Living…
But
Having "GIRLFRIEND"
Along With The "WIFE" Is
Art Of Living
************
Husband asks: Do you know the meaning of WIFE? It means…
Without Information, Fighting Everytime!
WIFE says: No darling , it means :-
With Idiot For Ever
************
Wife: I wish I was a newspaper
so I would be in ur hands allday.
Husband: I too wish that u were
a newspapers so I could have
a new one everyday.
************
Nobody teaches
Volcanoes to erupt,
Tsunamis to devastate,
Hurricanes to sway around
&
no one teaches
How to choose a Husband,
NATURAL DISASTERS JUST HAPPEN.
************
Wife: yesterday-night I saw a dream
That u were sending me
Jewelry and clothes!
Husband: yeah, I saw
your dad paying the bill !!!
************

Sometimes dreams do come true

Sometimes dreams do come true, sand art

Aishwarya Rai–Miss World 1994–crown event video

Real Name: Aishwarya Rai
Date Of Birth: 1 November 1973
Birth Place: Mangalore, Karnataka, India
Residence : Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

Miss World 1994 Final question
Miss World 1994 Crowning

Beautiful miss world Aishwarya Rai.  One of her earliest modelling assignment was, when she was in the ninth grade, for Camlin Pencils. One of her professors at Jai Hind College took pictures of her which were published in a fashion magazine. In 1991 Rai took part in the Ford Supermodel Contest and also appeared in Vogue Magazine. She has been on the cover of Vogue three times.

Rai became popular after appearing in a Pepsi commercial with actor Aamir Khan. She modelled for Longines watches, Coca-Cola, Lakmé Cosmetics, Casio pager, Philips, Palmolive, Lux, and Fuji films. She continued to model while pursuing her studies in architecture. She was named the official brand ambassador for De Beers diamonds in India.

In the 1994 Miss India contest, she won second place, behind Sushmita Sen, and was crowned Miss India World. She went on to win the Miss World title the same year, where she also won the Miss Photogenic award. After winning the pageant, she gave up her studies and spent one year reigning as Miss World in London. Rai continued to pursue a career as a model until she became an actress.

Nice sentences (just for laughing purpose ;-)?

  1. 3 Easy Ways to Die :

    Take a Cigar daily – You will die 10 years early.

    Drink Rum daily – You will die 30 years early.

    Love Someone Truly – You will die daily.

    2. A foolish man tells a woman to STOP talking, but a WISE man tells

    her that she looks extremely BEAUTIFUL when her LIPS are CLOSED.

    3.. One GOOD way to REDUCE Alcohol consumption :

    Before Marriage – Drink whenever you are SAD

    After Marriage – Drink whenever you are HAPPY

    4. Three FASTEST means of Communication :

    1. Tele-Phone

    2. Tele-Vision

    3. Tell to Woman

    Need still FASTER – Tell her NOT to tell ANYONE..

    5.. Love your friends not their sisters. Love your sisters not their friends.

    6… Let us be generous like this : Four Ants are moving through a forest.

    They see an ELEPHANT coming towards them.

    Ant 1 says : we should KILL him.

    Ant 2 says : No, Let us break his Leg alone.

    Ant 3 says : No, we will just throw him away from our path..

    Ant 4 says : No, we will LEAVE him because he is ALONE and we are FOUR.

    7. If you do NOT have a Girl Friend – You are missing SOME thing in your life.

    If you HAVE a Girl Friend – You are missing EVERY thing in your life.

    8.. Question : When do you CONGRATULATE someone for their MISTAKE.

    Answer : On their MARRIAGE.

    9. When your LIFE is in DARKNESS, PRAY GOD and ask him to free you from Darkness.

    Even after you pray, if U R still in Darkness – Please PAY the ELECTRICITY BILL .

    10. Why Government do NOT allow a Man to MARRY 2 Women.

    Because per Constitution, you can NOT BE PUNISHED TWICE for the same Mistake

(just for laughing purpose ;-)? – not related to anyone.

HOW PERFORM NAVARATHIRI POOJAI

HOW PERFORM NAVARATHIRI POOJAI .
Navratri, the nine-night festival, honors Goddess Durga, Goddess Lakshmi and Goddess Saraswathi in South India. It is known as Bommla Koluvu in Andhra Pradesh and Navarathri in Tamil Nadu and Kerala. Navratri is observed as Dusshera in Karnataka, where it is observed for ten days. The main event during Navrathri in South India is the display of dolls and idols – Kolu and the placing of Kalash, which represents Goddess.Navaratri puja might seem a huge complicated event for many. You can always perform a simple puja by worshipping the Goddess on nine days by lighting a lamp and offering a fruit as prasadam. Rituals are not important but devotion is important.

Here is a step by step method on how to perform Navratri Puja.

GETTING READY.
•Get the house cleaned and ready. You are inviting Goddess into the home. Usually this is done on the Amavasi day, a day before the beginning of Navratri.
•Mango leaf festoons are installed on doors, windows and in puja room. Fresh Kolams are drawn.
•If you are keeping Kolu, get all the Kolu dolls ready. Repair broken pieces and use natural colors to paint them.
•Decide upon the Bommai Kolu Theme.
•Plan early about the pooja prasadam (neivedya) and also about the gifts that you plan to give to women guests.

Requirements for Navaratri Puja
•If you are keeping Kolu dolls, purchase new dolls at least a couple of new ones. The most important doll needed is the Marapachi dolls (Male and Female pair of dolls).
•A pot for Kalasha or Kumbha (brass pot)
•Face of Goddess to be stuck on Kalasha. Some people do not opt for this.
•Sweets
•Ingredients of the Prasadam to be prepared (this depends on what neivediya you are preparing)
•Betel leaves
•Betel nuts
•Bananas
•Coconut
•Usual fruits
•Usual pooja items like lamp, incense, agarbathis etc.
•Lotus flower for Goddess Saraswathi and Goddess Lakshmi. Jasmine for Durga. Avoid wild flowers.If you are giving gifts to women invited for Navratri Pooja, then the bag should contain betel leaves, betel nuts, a pair of round turmeric roots, a coconut, fruits, sweets, flowers, a small gift. You can also include cosmetics like eye kohl, kumkuma, bangles, comb etc.A day before Navratri Puja

Navaratri Puja begins on the Bhadrapada Amavasi day or Puratasi Amavasai day, a day before Navratri begins. All arrangements are done on this day. In some communities male members perform Tarpan or Shardham dedicated to dead ancestors in the morning.

•In the evening, Kalasha or Purna Kumbha is prepared. This is an invitation to Goddess to enter your home.
•Purna Kumba or Kalash is kept on a kolam in such a place that there is space behind to keep the Bommai Kolu. You can attach a face of Goddess to the Purna Kumbha and decorate the Kumbha with jewelry, turmeric, sandal paste, flowers etc.
•Those who do not keep Kolu, keep the Kalash in the Pooja room.
•Betel leaves, Betel nuts, a coconut is placed in front of the Kalasha. Cooked rice or boiled and sweetened milk is kept as prasadam or neivedya in front of the Kalasha.
•This Kalasha is to be kept for next nine days – it symbolizes Goddess.
•A lamp is lit every evening and morning for nine days.Navratri Puja Begins

Women perform all the pujas during Navratri.

•You have already installed the Goddess in the form of Purna Kumbha. Light a lamp morning and evening on all nine days.

•Elaborate pujas are conducted in the evening.

•Other women are invited on any one of the evening.
•The first three days is dedicated to Goddess Durga.
•The next three days is dedicated to Goddess Lakshmi.
•The final three days is dedicated to Goddess Saraswathi.
•Fresh kolams are done on all nine days.
•Shlokas that are recited on nine days include Durga Ashtotaram, Devi Mahatmiyam, Shyamala Dhandakam, Lakshmi Sahasranama, Lakshmi Ashototaram, Lalitha Sahasranama, Saraswathi Stotram, Saraswathi Ashototaram.
•Sholakas are recited while performing the puja.
Sweets and neivedya prepared are shared with neighbors, relatives and friends.

A kannika (young girl) is invited and she is given lunch and new clothes on the first day. Some people do the Kannika Pooja it on 9 days.

WOW-Girls would love it -Watch It Guys

Creative Love Letter

1. I need 2 tell u something, read number 5
2. Are u in a rush? read number 8
3. Are u curious? read number 9
4. Look its the following….u betta read number 15
5. I havent got the guts….just read number 17
6. I would like to tell u..but u should read number 16
7. I’ll tell u…but first read number 2
8. Its very simple…just read number 4
9. Dont get nervous..its simple..jus read number 18
10. Not yet…but read number 19
11. Are u gettin tired? relax…just read number 13
12. Like i was sayin….read number 3
13. You’re nearly there….read number 20
14. Just dropped by 2 ask how r u mydear?!..
15. Ur getting nervous..just read number 6
16. U still dont get it? just read number 12
17. Oh! im embarassed….read number 7
18. I dunno if u’ll understand…just read number 10
19. Read number 11…slowly…and u’ll find out
20. Now i tell u….read number 14…really quietly ok?

Modern Indian Arranged Marriage in the era of Microsoft

i love you mommy, but you don’t love me :(

Hi, Mommy. I’m your baby. You don’t know me yet, I’m only a few weeks old. You’re going to find out about me soon, though, I promise. Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I’ve got beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don’t have it yet, but I will when I’m born. I’m going to be your only child, and you’ll call me your one and only. I’m going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we have each other. We’ll help each other, and love each other. I want to be a doctor when I grow up.

You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn’t wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I know it already.

Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about me! …He wasn’t happy, Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don’t think that you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called wedlock, and money, and bills, and stuff I don’t think I understand yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay. Then he did something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay… but I was very sad for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That’s a sound I don’t like. It doesn’t make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after, and he hugged you again. You forgave him, Mommy, but I’m not sure if I do. It wasn’t right. You say he loves you… why would he hurt you? I don’t like it, Mommy.

Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and you’re so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes, and you were so so so happy. You sing to me, too. You have the most beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I’m happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.

I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love you, Mommy.

Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting funny and he wasn’t talking right. He said he didn’t want you. I don’t know why, but that’s what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry, Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won’t let you get hurt! I promise to protect you. Daddy is bad. I don’t care if you think that he is a good person, I think he’s bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn’t want us. He doesn’t like me. Why doesn’t he like me, Mommy?

You didn’t talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?

It’s been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven’t talked to me or touched me or anything since that. Don’t you still love me, Mommy? I still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don’t you do that when you’re awake, any more?

I’m 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren’t you proud of me? We’re going somewhere today, and it’s somewhere new. I’m excited. It looks like a hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did I tell you that? I hope you’re as excited as I am. I can’t wait.

…Mommy, I’m getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don’t know what you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think something’s going to happen soon. I’m really, really, really scared, Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love you!

Mommy, what are they doing to me!? It hurts! Please make them stop! It feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!

Don’t worry Mommy, I’m safe. I’m in heaven with the angels now. They told me what you did, and they said it’s called an abortion.

Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don’t you love me any more? Why did you get rid of me? I’m really, really, really sorry if I did something wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why don’t you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care about me, and not talk to me. Didn’t I love you enough? Please say you’ll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don’t want to be here, I want you to love me again! I’m really really really sorry if I did something wrong. I love you!

I love you, Mommy.

Every abortion is just…

One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.

If you’re against abortion, reblog.

Pretty Girls

hi Friends… Pretty Girls that i meant are actress. My Favorite Actress.
Lets Have a look…

Riya Sen

riya eye

Since Begining i like Riya sen. Really Pretty. Cute. Small. Nice. And Whatever – ever can said. Very Nice girl. I like her “side look”.

Have a look at your right hand side. Nice is it? Actually, it very nice eye. I do saw a girl with same eye near my house/ hometown. Actually, it “magnet eye” in my own term. Can Attract people to have feeling for her. Recently this Actress become sexy girl. But, i think, the eye itself consider sexy. Well, on her 1st tamil movie, she really nice. Not showy or sexy. But, in classic dress. riya eye prettyThe movie is Tajmahal. Very nice. All songs simply super.

But whatever does it, it her life to show her to public or otherway around. On my opinion, her class look is very nice.

Other than, she look very simple. She look pretty even she not apply any make-up, costume, or anything else.

Want to see…???

Check out…

Nice is it?

Somemore?

ok:

How is it? ok. From my point of view, she is very pretty.

ok her age? 25 ++
She born @ born Riya Dev Varma in Kolkata, India on January 24, 1981)

Others?

Nagma

I like Nagma as well, after Riya sen. (both people are actress of 1990s) 🙂

NagmaNagma
Real Name: Namratha Sadhana
DOB: Born 25 December 1974

I like this pretty girl after the movie of Kadhalan. Kadhalan is most lovely movie. It about real love. ItKadhalan movie explain the real love to public. The desire to do anything to attract the heart and soul of own pair. Not forgeting, it also teach us the word “us”, “patient” in love. Face anything together with true care and feeling.

Well, She acted very naturally in that movie. Well, she really, do the role of lover in greater effort. She is Amazing. Not a waste to say, she become best actress during 90’s in tamil film industry. Usually, she do great job in love movies. Another Notable movie is Love Birds. Also With same Here, which is Prabudeva.

OK:

Now, we go futher to ending 90’s … Who might be ? Obviously it Simran. The Sexy girl that Become favorite of many. But, got somemarket down after she married. Well, i dont consider sexy as 1st reason. But, she do since early movies of her. Well, in the movie of Jodi. She did great job. …

Well, She acted in so many movies but certain movies really made her better in film industry. Film such as Jodi, Valli, are really nice. It show-off her talent to her fans.

This girl also look nice without make up. Even thought not as good as riya sen, but this can said “ok”. This due her age. She not teenage girl. She already around 30 years old compare to riyasen, who is just 25 something.

Hey Special? Her eye look nice. Nice hair. Nice skin color. And much more. Usually, people say – she look sexy. Yes, she do but in early movies. It can be said, very sexy in her early movies. Later, she cover up. In movies like Jodi, she did great job with prasant.

Basically, she had the talent but people more on her sexy dance. That might be the reason, why she sometimes, do dance for single songs in movies. In movies like Youth, her dance was simply super.

Recently, After she get married: she not acting. Very few chance to act in movies. So that, she almost being housewife and just take care her 1st son.

Note: for more picture – check out my gallery @ Heart2love.net

After aabove 3 pretty actress, i start wondering, actress might lost her status once she get married or failure to maintain her role towatd her fans. Basically, i like people who have cute smile, slim, fair skin color and great looking.

The early times, before this 3 girls, i like actress like, Suvalaxmi who look great in saree. She also smile good. And i also in favor of Kajol, mMaduridixit, Urmila who acted in indian movie. +++ other small looking 90’s actress thatt i forgot names.

OK. Recently, after 2000, i don’t have any actress specifically as my favorite. So, i just list down my Y2KPretty girls. (please check my blog part for more detail of below actress)

  1. Jayree – from chocolateJoothika
  2. Joothika – from
  3. Trisha – In
  4. Sadha –
  5. Sneha –
  6. Sherin –
  7. AishwaryaRai – Jeans
  8. Mumtaj –
  9. Bhavana –
  10. Mamtha -From Sivakasi
  11. Harini – From Boys
  12. Shiriya – From Mazhai and Thirivilaiyadal Arambham
  13. Shalini – From Amarkalam
  14. Vaishnavi – Manmathan
  15. Bhoomika – From Roja kootham
  16. Asin –
  17. Gayatry –

more actress – but coming soon 🙂

aval……

athparikkum kadal,
aval vidum oru siriya punnagai,
sutherikkum kathiravan,
aval ore kangalin siru paarvai,
thenralai vide menmaiyanathu,
aval pesum muthu thamizh,
uzhagathin sirantha azhagi alla,
aval en ullathin azhagi….

Yaradi Nee Mohini – Engeyo Partha Mayakam